Overcoming Bitterness and Unforgiveness

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  • April 26, 2009

“Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Seven times?” (Matthew 18:21).

Do you have trouble forgiving others? You’re not alone. Almost everyone agrees that we need to forgive. We know what we “ought” to do, but actually doing it is the hard part.

When Peter asked Jesus this question he sounded very weary indeed. Can you hear it in his voice? How often! How many times! Peter had reached the limits of his patience and was looking to the Lord for some direction in this matter of forgiveness. At least he was willing to forgive! And he was even willing to overlook seven transgressions against him! That sounds very, very generous from a human standpoint. But something didn’t feel quite right, so he went to Jesus to find out for sure: is seven times enough?

Peter was surely disappointed to hear Jesus say, “Not seven times, but seventy-times-seven!” Literally speaking, that is four hundred ninety times. That’s a lot of forgiveness! But there is prophetic significance to this number also. With His teachings on forgiveness, Jesus gives us a unique perspective into the Kingdom of God and the unique position we occupy as kings and priests in that Kingdom.

Over time bitterness begins to creep in and our spiritual life begins to decay and deteriorate. Forgiving someone seven times sounds excessive when you can’t manage to forgive someone once or twice. And forgiving someone up to 490 times sounds ridiculously impossible.

Or is it? Join us as we discuss what Jesus means by forgiving to the uttermost. With God’s grace you CAN overcome bitterness and unforgiveness.

This teaching is Part 2 of our Overcomer Series which offers a Biblical perspective on spiritual and emotional issues.

There are two messages in this series, including:

Overcoming Bitterness and Unforgiveness – 1
Overcoming Bitterness and Unforgiveness – 2

About Chip Brogden

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One Comment

  • bosede oluwayomi says:

    be blessed in Jesus’ name. i have been struggling with unforgiveness and bitterness due to a terrible emotional breakdown almost two years ago. now it feels like i have a doulble personality. one minute i am all loving and nice the next i am a bitter person who is intolerant, easily irritated and who wants people that hurt me and are still hurting me to pay. the blow it has on my spiritual life is heavy and it is hard to be who i was before all this happened. its like my fire for the lord burned out and i feel like a working corpse at times. i hope that my old self will finally come back. Stay blessed.

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